Yes, it’s a safe platform. Her weight definitely adds to her realism. Don’t be intimidated by her weight guys. She might seem heavy trying to pull her out of the box. But once she’s out, she is much more manageable. As for intimacy with her… she feels absolutely incredible. Especially when you feel her realistic weight on top of you, you feel how voluptuous and full her bottom is, and she’s visually very aesthetic. So prepare to not last very long… I am serious when I say that lol.